Fear is probably the root of all problems in our lives
and it’s the reason stress occurs. When a person feels
threatened, the emotions are often tangled in a web of
confusion that hinders them from seeing the problem in full
light. Many of us fear the worst will happen when a threat
presents itself. This is where stress management comes into
focus, since most fears are explainable and
exaggerated.
If you’re at risk of losing your job, then you have a
legitimate reason to have some fear. However, if you have a
stress management techniques in place, you’ll know what your
next move will be.
We can assume that you may
have violated a policy in the workplace, or else the employers
are laying off workers. If you violated a policy in the
workplace, then we know you made a bad decision, possibly
acting on your emotions rather than using your head. At this
point you could potentially be threatened by stress since you
had a failure in your stress management scheme....
On
other hand you’re at risk of being laid off, then the
situation is out of your control, to a large degree. If you’ve
been working to your fullest potential, your fellow employee
may be the person at risk. However, if you haven’t worked at
the business for a long time, then it’s completely out of
their control as well.
Let’s assuming you have a stress
management plan, including a saving account established for
potential risks. You know you’ll be able to live off this
account until you find a new job. We see how a stress
management scheme if a saving account is established, simply
because planning and preparing played a part in this decision.
Now we see that expectations are a part of life and this is
often the reason a person has fears.
A
well-constructed stress management scheme would appear if you
knew ahead of time that a potential risk of unemployment
existed. Now, if you were searching the job market to
establish a new career, we know that you’re really on your
toes reducing potential stress.
However, if you waited
until the last moment to search for a new job, then you’re
obviously relying on someone else, believing a potential
threat was non-existing. If you had a well constructed
stress management scheme in place, you would have prepared,
planned, and made an effort to eliminate stressors and stress,
made a wise decision, and so on.
We can never
determine our future and living for today is all we have,
however, we do have a choice to prepare in the event that
could cause fear comes along. What about exaggerated fear?
What if you fear you won’t be able to get on your feet again
if you lose your job? Obviously you’re stressed out, since
hope and stress management is non-existing.
We know
that you have hope, since jobs are available and since you
probably have education, experience and skills, so it’s likely
someone will hire you. We can see that your fear is
likely exaggerated and that you may lack confidence,
self-esteem, and hope.
This is why you should
have a stress management scheme that works with your behavior,
attitude, personality, and beliefs. Practicing this technique
can help us to build confidence, change behaviors and
attitudes and even alter our personality and beliefs.
Therefore, we need to use learning skills, practicing
positive influences, a better understanding of how stress
works, and readjustment tools that can help you learn how to
think accordingly to life's demands. You might even include a
technique that focuses on the your history to see if any
hidden fears exist, that are promoting certain behaviors and
thoughts.